Sunday, September 19, 2010

The Last Hurrah - Part 6

Part 6 - The Talk

We spent the rest of the afternoon at the beach and I'd say that was the highlight of the trip. On the way back we had dinner at a restaurant by the dock and we talked some more before taking the ferry back. I can never be sure whether to take 100% of what she says seriously, but the conversations we had the rest of the day was probably a good indication of what type of person she had become. She asked me several times why I hate her so much, and I told her that after everything she had done to me it should be pretty obvious so she should stop asking. Then she said is it because she is a conniving bitch and I said that's pretty close.

She talked about her new approach to sugar relationship which is more like a stripper/escort approach. That is, to get the most out of a guy and then move on to the next one. Obviously she has gotten what she wanted out of me and she has moved on. She also talked about how to make the new guys fall for her so she can have them in the palm of her hands. I told her she is a "player" and you don't play with a player. And she is playing with fire so sooner or later she will get burned. She mentioned that she has to act "normal" around her new guys. I told her that she is not normal and she only "acts" normal, and that's one thing she is going to miss about me because she can be herself around me.

Prior to the trip she had talked about wanting to "re-negotiate" our arrangement so I asked what that was about. She said her goal is to get $2k a day from the guys that she sees because that's what her escort friends are getting. So surely she should be able get the same or more. I asked her if she has gotten that from anyone yet and she said no. She then said if her new guys can't pony up $2k a day for her then she will just move on. OK, keep digging for the gold! I told her that's another reason why I'm done seeing her, because to me a sugar relationship should be more than just how much money she gets by the hour or day.

By the time we got back to the hotel we were both exhausted so we cleaned up and took a nap until late in the evening. Once we woke up we started our "talk" again. I told her to be careful with what she is doing and who she is doing it with. I'm a nice guy and I'll get over what she did to me, but the next guy may not be so forgiving. I also mentioned some of the women I've been with recently to let her know that I'm moving on as well. And I gave her tips on where her new guys should be taking her, telling her about my past trips to various fun places. I think that opened her eyes a bit and let her know that I'm not as dumb and gullible to her games as it seemed.

I also told her that I kept a journal of our meetings and it certainly got her curiosity going. So I read to her what I wrote about her from the first few meetings. As I read it to her, I reminded her of how things used to be and how she came across to me which is nothing like she is now. She went from a sweet, caring, hard working girl-next-door, to a greedy, demanding, high priced escort and drama queen. She got a bit defensive and gave me her version of what happened in the early days.

Coming up - The Heart in the Sand

7 comments:

  1. I was never one that was able to wait for the next book in a series... Spit it out already!!!!

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  2. Patience my friend! The last two parts are probably the most interesting ones. :)

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  3. Yeah, but can they be read in 2.2 seconds like this one?

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  4. If I combined all parts of the story into one post, would people actually have the patience to read the whole thing? I think posting parts of the story periodically builds the story line better, no?

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  5. I look forward to the next two post.. but I must say Guru.. that sugar life is just as difficult as real life.. I am not so sure how much people change or if they have a more greedy side that we just do see initially. Even in friendships I have watched people turn into someone I no longer know and recently realized it was simply because I refused to see that side of them yet it was always there.

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  6. @sugarlane - you're right that sometimes we ignore the warning signs and refuse to see what's coming until it blows up in our face. Even though this relationship lasted six months, the reality is that it should have ended a long time ago.

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