Part 10 - The Train Wreck
We made it to dinner and the staff was very efficient so it went by very fast.  Considering it's a fine dining establishment I almost felt like we were  being rushed out the door, which was just fine by her because she said she has a "hot date" with her ex afterward. We talked about  why she picked "Goodbye My Lover" as our song. Didn't she know the lyrics  and how emotional the song was? She claimed that she only knew the  chorus when she picked it, but agreed that the words were very  appropriate to our situation.  She said she will go get the photo CD and  drop it off at my hotel later but who knows if she will actually do it  or not. Soon it was time to drop me off at the hotel and I thought it  would be nice to spend more time together so I invited her to come up and chat.  But she would have none of it and actually got out of the car to take my luggage out of the trunk. Then I noticed that she left her  cell phone on the driver's seat so I grabbed it and got out of the car  and told her goodbye. I figured this was a good way to return the favor  for stealing my camera.
Not long after I got to my room she called from the pink cell phone I gave  her (it was a gift from our third meeting) to ask me if I've seen her other cell phone. I played dumb for a  while and she got impatient and said  she will go back to the  restaurant to look for it and hang up on me. I sent her text messages to  let her know that I have the phone and she should come get it but I  guess she didn't check her messages. Then about an hour later she called  again and this time I told her to come see me because I "found" her  phone. I said she dropped it and I picked it up, and I was going to give  it back to her but since she was in such a hurry to ditch me after  dinner so that's why I didn't give it back to her. Of course she wasn't  too pleased and I told her to bring the photo CD and negatives in exchange for her  phone.
Soon she showed up and looked very agitated. She demanded for her  phone and started to look all over the room for it. She figured out  quickly that I had it locked in the closet safe and demanded that I open  it. I told her to calm down and talk for a bit but then she started to  go through my stuff and grabbed my wallet out of my brief case. Of  course I can't let her take my wallet so I grabbed her arm to take it  back.  This is the second time we got into a bit of  "rough play", and the first time was when we broke up after three months. By now I can see that she is extremely sensitive to it  for whatever reason.
After I took my wallet back from her she basically  lost it and screamed and shouted non stop for her phone.  Finally I opened the safe to give her the phone, and she threw the CD  and negatives on the floor and left in a huff. I asked her,  "what's the matter, can't take a little joke?" Obviously she is much  better at dishing it out than taking it. I also told her "it was nice  knowing you" as she slammed the door on her way out. After that fracas she actually  called me twice the next few days and we exchanged a few text  messages. It turned out that she really wasn't moving and she  expanded her weekend job to 3-4 days a week with 12 hour shifts. She was  still active on sugardaddie.com but I noticed that her profile on  seekingarrangement was not searchable anymore. I'm sure her "escorting"  on the side continues, but who cares.
So despite my best intentions to breakup amicably during the Caribbean trip, we still end up having a big fight that resulted in a train wreck.  It was similar to how we broke up the first time after three months. Will this ever end?
Coming up... The Epilogue
 
 
Guru:
ReplyDeleteNow I am confused.. so after 3 months you had previous drama with her and broken apart for some time? Are you one of those people who get a rush out of the drama? No offense.. but for sometime I have noticed a pattern with the SD's on the blogs and it appears the occasional drama and not be treated the way they treat their SB seems to captivate most SD's. Just find it interesting that those who play games seem to be remembered long after the arrangement is over. ;)
Yes, we broke up after 3 months but got back together right away. During the first three months it was a combination of allowance and gifts, after that it was allowance only because that's what she wanted. Obviously going back to her was a mistake and I shouldn't have prolonged the relationship.
ReplyDeleteNo, I don't get a rush out of drama any more. I've learned my lesson the hard way! As I said in the prologue, maybe someday I'll go back to fill in the blanks and make this a complete story from beginning to end.