3. Everything was NOT ok.
"He stayed in my city for 2 days, he seemed pretty happy...he was sweet,caring, couldnt keep his hands to himself... all these activities he joined as well...and he had an awesome time"
She wrote about her impression of him, but what was his impression of her?? Despite her saying that he was seemingly happy, his behavior was in stark contrast to what she described.
"I did ask if everything was all right, if he was happy,if I had met all his expectations. He said yes."
Well, obviously he lied. But why?
"and reminded him that since we had agreed in no talking about a financial agreement but for him to leave me a sealed envelope by my night table, to honor the end of our deal. At this point, everything seemed normal to me."
Unfortunately this was a recurring theme. She thought everything was normal and he was happy, when in reality that was not the case. Clearly, everything was NOT ok despite all of her efforts to please him.
4. What's sex got to do with it?
"To my surprise he went to his room..and asked me to stay in mine"
This is not the action of a man who would say "you are such a good lover," "if anyone has to feel lucky about all this experience is me." His action speaks louder than words, so she shouldn't have let his words mislead her.
"Yes...we had sex on the day we met. Now that I think about it...I cant remember if he did finish or not...weird~"
"I had tried to give him a BJ and he had some trouble lasting on it...even though I had pulled every trick I knew"
"I slipped into his room and we attempted to have sex. I started on a BJ again...he was ready...but...again....he failed to finish. We snuggled and he said it was fine...he had enjoyed it, even when no finishing act. I tried all the moves..every trick I knew...everything!"
It's obvious the sex wasn't good, and I'm not sure why. It appears that it certainly wasn't due to a lack of effort on her part. Perhaps it was her lack of experience, or maybe he had some physical limitations. Ultimately, maybe sex had everything to do with how things turned out.
Coming up - Part 3, the empty envelope
SD Guru,
ReplyDeleteI just read your post along with what Caribbean Princess wrote. Very terrible! I can't believe he would break her personal belongings too. What a screwed up bastard.
But to make a comment on what you wrote:
"It's obvious the sex wasn't good, and I'm not sure why. It appears that it certainly wasn't due to a lack of effort on her part. Perhaps it was her lack of experience, or maybe he had some physical limitations. At the end of the day, maybe sex had everything to do with how it turned out."
As an escort, I have had lots of experiences with a large variety of men, and there are just some (not a great number of men) who cannot get excited. It has to do with chemistry and psychology. They think they will like the lady (me for example) but once we meet there is just something that does not click in their mind.
I have been told by a few gentlemen a couple of reasons why they cannot perform with me:
A) They feel very guilty cheating on their wife, and having sex with someone other than her makes them lose the erection. (These guys are new to seeing escorts)
B) I remind them of someone that is very close to them. Example: Their young daughter. I look extremely young and my clients do not know until they meet me.
My point is, sex may have had an impact but I am certain it had little to do with Caribbean Princess. Normally, men have a good time with any pretty lady that is open to the idea of sex. He was just an old, impotent asshole...by the sounds of it :)
Great post by the way! Waiting for you to finish the story on "Mixing Love and Sugar"!
Sexy Sadie
thankkkkken Sexy Sadie for your input~ Je t'aime!
ReplyDeleteI agree the lack of sexual chemistry wasn't due to lack of effort on her part and he may have some issues of his own. However, perhaps in his mind, making a good effort is nice but it's the result that counts. I don't know how experienced she is sexually, and I'd guess that she didn't have much experience in dealing with a man of his age sexually.
ReplyDeleteI also don't know what they discussed about sex prior to the meeting that may have raised his expectations. If the erotica in her blog is any indication, then I wouldn't be surprised that he showed up expecting the kind of sexual chemistry that may be difficult to achieve in reality.
SD Guru :)
ReplyDeletehehe She should have put Viagra in his oatmeal! lol :)
Sexy Sadie
LOL... you would have thought he's smart enough to bring plenty of vitamin V to last 10 days!!
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