Evolution of a Sugardaddy - Part 3

Part 3 - My first "long term" SB

A typical first meeting with a pot SB is usually for something casual like lunch/dinner/drinks to get know each other without pressure or expectations on either side.  This can take place locally or at a city I travel to regularly for business.  If things go well and there is chemistry, compatibility, and common expectations, then I'll schedule a second meeting to discuss things further.  In many ways this is no different than a typical first date in normal dating. Some first meetings have been more elaborate and went further depending on the circumstances and chemistry.

I have also flown in pot SB's for a first meeting but decided to stop doing it because of the complications involved.  I've seen many blog stories about first meetings that were planned to last several days, but then it usually ends up in disappointment.  To spend that much time with someone you're meeting for the first time is usually not a good idea because too many things can go wrong.  It can also cause expectations and pressure to develop and make the situation uncomfortable. What if the person is not as advertised in the profile or the chemistry isn't there?  It's not uncommon to think everything will go well before a first meeting only to find out that's not the case.  

Most pot SB's don't get past the first meeting and only a few resulted in on-going relationships.  During the first three years I had only two relationships that lasted six months which I thought was long term at the time.  The rest were one and done's or fizzled out after a few meetings. But since then I had three relationships that lasted more than a year and three more that lasted six months.  It took patience, perseverance, and maybe some luck to find the right person in the right situation for a relationship/arrangement that lasts.

After being on sugardaddie.com for several months and went through numerous false starts and learning experiences like the "Sorority Girls from Hell", I finally met my first "long term" SB.  She was in her early 30's and worked as a personal trainer.  It was a long distance relationship and we met about once a month by traveling to fun places together.  No money changed hands but I spent plenty of money on her for travel, shopping, fine dining, spa, got things she needed to run her business, furnished her wardrobe and apartment, and took her to vacations in Europe and Mexico.  The chemistry was magical and it was pretty much what I thought a sugar relationship would be!

Coming up - all good things must come to an end.